We Listen and We Don’t Judge Advent Edition

December 1, 2024   /   First AME Zion

 

Sermon: We Listen and We Don’t Judge: Advent Edition

Scripture: Matthew 7:1; Matthew 1:18–24

Introduction: The Social Media Trend
In the age of hashtags and viral trends, it’s fascinating how certain messages resonate deeply with our shared human experience. One such trend gaining traction on social media is the phrase: “We listen, and we don’t judge.” The concept is simple but powerful: creating spaces where people can share their truths without fear of condemnation. Influencers and content creators share stories of vulnerability, inviting others into a practice of empathetic listening, encouraging understanding rather than judgment.

While this trend seems fresh and modern, it is, in fact, deeply rooted in the teachings of Christ. It calls to mind the words of Jesus in Matthew 7:1, “Do not judge, so that you may not be judged.” This principle of suspending judgment and listening with love is not just a contemporary idea; it is at the very heart of our faith.

As we reflect during this Advent season—a time of expectation, hope, and preparation—what would it mean for us to truly embody this principle? Let us turn to the story of Joseph, the earthly father of Jesus, to see how he models a life of listening and resisting judgment.

Scripture: Matthew 1:18–24
In Matthew’s account of the birth of Jesus, Joseph finds himself in an unimaginably difficult position. Mary, to whom he is betrothed, is found to be pregnant. From a cultural and legal perspective, Joseph had every reason to assume the worst. By all appearances, Mary’s pregnancy could be seen as evidence of betrayal. In his society, the judgment would have been swift and severe.

Yet, what Joseph does next is remarkable. Instead of rushing to judgment or reacting out of anger, Joseph pauses. He decides to quietly dissolve the engagement, demonstrating compassion even before the angel visits him. And when the angel appears in a dream, explaining that the child is conceived by the Holy Spirit, Joseph listens and obeys without question.

Joseph’s response is a lesson in humility, patience, and trust. He does not judge Mary or dismiss the angel’s message as absurd. Instead, he opens his heart to God’s plan, even when it challenges his understanding of righteousness.

1. The Danger of Judgment
Jesus’ warning in Matthew 7:1 is not just a call to be nice; it’s a safeguard against spiritual pride. Judgment often stems from a limited perspective. When we judge others, we assume we have all the facts, but in truth, only God knows the full story.

Joseph could have judged Mary harshly based on appearances. He could have condemned her publicly to protect his reputation. But Joseph’s story reminds us that judgment blinds us to God’s work in unexpected places. It is only when we listen with humility that we can discern God’s voice and will.

2. The Power of Listening
Listening requires more than hearing words; it demands a posture of openness and empathy. When the angel spoke to Joseph, he listened not only with his ears but with his heart. He set aside his fears and cultural expectations to embrace a divine calling.

In our own lives, how often do we rush to conclusions instead of pausing to listen? The Advent season invites us to slow down and create space for God to speak, whether through Scripture, prayer, or the voices of those around us. Like Joseph, we must cultivate a spirit of discernment, listening for the ways God may be working in unexpected ways.

3. Living the Principle: “We Listen, and We Don’t Judge”
What would it look like for us to truly live out this principle in our daily lives?

  • In our relationships: Instead of jumping to conclusions about someone’s actions or motives, we can choose to listen first. Like Joseph, we can respond with compassion rather than condemnation.
  • In our faith communities: The church should be a place where people feel safe to share their struggles without fear of judgment. During Advent, as we anticipate the coming of Christ, let us reflect on how we can create a culture of grace, where listening is prioritized over critique.
  • In our society: We live in a divided world, where judgment often feels like the default response. What if we, as Christians, modeled a different way? A way that mirrors Joseph’s willingness to listen to God and trust His plan?

Conclusion: The Advent Challenge
Joseph’s story is not just about his obedience; it is a testament to the transformative power of listening and withholding judgment. This Advent, as we await the celebration of Christ’s birth, let us embody the principle of “We listen, and we don’t judge.”

Let us be a people who, like Joseph, create space for God’s work in our lives and in the lives of others. Let us choose compassion over condemnation, trust over suspicion, and faith over fear.

May we remember that the God who came to dwell with us in Jesus Christ is the same God who calls us to listen, love, and embrace the unexpected. And in doing so, may we reflect the light of Christ to a world longing for hope and grace.

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