The Case For Biblical Friendship
September 24, 2023 / Pastor Kyle Bonenberger / City ChurchHow to experience amazing biblical friendships.
- Don’t be an crazy .
| 1 Samuel 17:25 | 1 Samuel 18:2, 7-11, 17-21, 25-30 | 1 Samuel 19:11 |
- (Humbly) Do what’s of .
| 1 Samuel 18:23 | Philippians 2:5-6 |
- the you are for.
- Make it a to for .
| 1 Samuel 19:1-7 |
- communication , others’ , and offer when life gets .
| 1 Samuel 20 |
SMALL GROUP QUESTIONS
What do you think?
Have someone quickly read over the main points/fill-ins from Sunday’s message. After you’ve refreshed everyone’s memories, share what particular point stood out to you, challenged you, or raised a question for you.
The story of your life.
- What was the most memorable story or example of a great friendship lived out in your life? If you are married or dating, try to think of an example that is not your significant other.
- On Sunday, Pastor Kyle mentioned that you must make deposits in relationships before making withdrawals. Can you think of practical ways you can invest in a current friendship to build stronger bonds?
Digging deeper.
- The story of the healing of the paralytic man is a powerful example of friendship, faith, and the support of a community. Read Mark 2:1-12 together, have a few people recap the main tenets of the story and then answer the following questions.
- Have you ever witnessed or experienced a situation where friends or a community came together to support someone in need? Share your experience.
- What does this story tell us about God? People? You?
- The story of Ruth and Naomi is a beautiful narrative of friendship, loyalty, and support in difficult times. It showcases the deep bond between a woman and her mother-in-law during challenging circumstances. Read Ruth 1:1-18 together, have a few people recap the main tenets of the story and then answer the following questions.
- How did Ruth and Naomi’s friendship demonstrate loyalty and support, especially in difficult times?
- What does this story tell us about God? People? You?
- All throughout the Bible there is emphasis on the importance of friendship and community. Read the following verses and then answer the following questions.
- Proverbs 18:24.
- Ecclesiastes 4:9-10.
- Proverbs 27:9.
- John 15:13.
- 1 Corinthians 15:33.
- Proverbs 17:17.
- Proverbs 27:17.
- Proverbs 13:20.
- 1 Thessalonians 5:11.
- What stuck out to you most in these verses?
- With these verses in mind, is the Lord prompting you to do anything specific in your friendships this week?
Personal reflection and application.
- Have everyone share one thing someone else shared in this discussion that struck a chord with you.
- Break up for prayer, preferably men with men and women with women if possible.