Exiles – 1 Peter 4:12

October 12, 2025   /   New City Church Olathe

When the Fire Comes: Faith That Endures the Test

1 Peter 4:12 (CSB)

“Dear friends, don’t be surprised when the fiery ordeal comes among you to test you as if something unusual were happening to you.”

Introduction – The Fire That Tests the Faithful

  • Church,
  • When Peter wrote these words,
  • He wasn’t speaking to people
  • Who were comfortable or secure.
  • He was writing to a scattered,
  • Suffering church
  • Men and women
  • Living under Roman rule,
  • Trying to follow Jesus
  • In a world that did not understand their faith.
  • They were strangers and exiles.
  • Their faith made them stand out,
  • And because of that,
  • They were starting to pay the price.
  • They were losing relationships,
  • Losing respect,
  • Losing opportunities.
  • Some even faced imprisonment and death.
  • And Peter,
  • The same Peter
  • Who once denied Jesus out of fear,
  • Is now shepherding these believers
  • By reminding them
  • That suffering is not strange—it’s sacred.
  • The fire that feels like it’s burning you is actually refining you.
  • In this verse,
  • Peter calls their hardship a “fiery ordeal.”
  • That’s not just poetic language.
  • It’s meant to grab attention.
  • It echoes the words of the prophet Malachi,
  • Who described God as a refiner and purifier of silver.

Malachi 3:2 says,

“For he will be like a refiner’s fire and like launderer’s bleach.”

  • That image would have been familiar to Peter’s readers:
  • A refiner’s fire removes impurities until only pure gold remains.
  • So, Peter is saying something powerful here
  • God hasn’t abandoned you in the fire.
  • He’s working through it.
  • Notice also how he begins: “Dear friends…” or “Beloved.”
  • Before he ever talks about pain,
  • He reminds them of love.
  • Before he addresses the furnace,
  • He points them to the Father.
  • You are loved by God,
  • Even in the flames.
  • The fire doesn’t mean you’ve been forgotten;
  • It means you are being formed.
  • And church,
  • We need to hear that today.
  • Because every one of us
  • Either has been,
  • Currently is,
  • Or will soon
  • Be walking through a fire of some kind.
  • It might be persecution for your faith,
  • Or pressure in your family,
  • Or pain that you never saw coming.
  • But Peter says, “Don’t be surprised.”
  • That’s the heartbeat of this verse.
  • When the fire comes
  • And it will
  • Don’t let it shake you.
  • God is doing something in it.
  • So let’s look together at three truths
  • Peter gives us about enduring the fire.

Point 1: Don’t Be Surprised by the Fire

  • Peter begins with these words:

“Dear friends, don’t be surprised when the fiery ordeal comes among you…”

  • He doesn’t say if it comes;
  • He says when.
  • The fire is inevitable
  • For anyone who belongs to Jesus.
  • It’s not punishment;
  • It’s proof that you belong to Him.
  • Now, let’s be honest:
  • Our natural reaction to pain or pressure is often surprise.
  • We think,
  • “Why is this happening to me?
  • I’m trying to do the right thing!
  • Shouldn’t following Jesus make life easier?”
  • Peter says, “No, don’t be shocked. This is part of it.”
  • Faith in Christ doesn’t remove suffering—it redefines it.
  • Jesus told His disciples plainly,

“In this world you will have suffering. Be courageous! I have conquered the world.” (John 16:33 CSB).

  • Peter’s echoing those very words.
  • He’s reminding us
  • That Jesus didn’t come to keep us out of the fire
  • But to walk with us through it.
  • The victory isn’t found in avoiding hardship
  • It’s found in enduring it with Him.
  • Surprise often reveals misplaced expectations.
  • Sometimes our surprise
  • Shows that we’ve built our theology around comfort
  • Instead of the cross.
  • When things get hard,
  • We think something’s gone wrong.
  • But Peter’s saying,
  • “No, this is exactly how it’s supposed to go.”
  • The presence of pain
  • Doesn’t mean the absence of God.
  • It might mean His plan is working perfectly.
  • The phrase “fiery ordeal”
  • Suggests both intensity and purpose.
  • The Greek word Peter uses—pyrosis
  • Literally means “burning” or “smelting.”
  • It’s what you do to metal to make it pure.
  • The fire’s heat isn’t random;
  • It’s refining.

James 1:2–3 says, “Consider it a great joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you experience various trials, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance.”

  • In other words,
  • The fire isn’t meant to consume you
  • It’s meant to complete you.
  • Peter knew this personally
  • He wasn’t writing about theory.
  • Remember,
  • This is the man who once said to Jesus,
  • “Even if I have to die with You,
  • I will never deny You.”
  • But when the pressure came,
  • He folded.
  • The rooster crowed,
  • And Peter wept bitterly.
  • Yet Jesus restored him.
  • So when Peter says,
  • “Don’t be surprised,”
  • he’s talking as someone
  • who’s felt the sting of failure
  • And the sweetness of forgiveness.
  • Suffering connects us to the story of Christ.
  • Verse 13 continues the thought:
  • “Instead, rejoice as you share in the sufferings of Christ.”
  • That word “share”
  • Means to have fellowship with.
  • When you suffer for Christ,
  • You’re not alone;
  • You’re participating in His story.
  • The world that crucified your Savior
  • Will never fully celebrate your faith—but heaven does.
  • God is never surprised,
  • Even when we are.

Romans 8:28 says, “We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God.”

  • You may be shocked by the heat,
  • But God planned the temperature.
  • Nothing passes through your life
  • Without first passing through His hands.
  • So Peter’s first command is simple:
  • Don’t be surprised.
  • The Christian life
  • Isn’t a detour around suffering
  • It’s the pathway through it.
  • When the fire comes,
  • Don’t panic;
  • Prepare.
  • Don’t question God’s goodness;
  • Trust His purpose.
  • Now once we stop being surprised by the fire,
  • We can begin to see what God is doing through it.
  • That leads to Peter’s second reminder.

Point 2: Recognize the Purpose of the Fire

Peter continues,

“…the fiery ordeal comes among you to test you…”

  • Now that word test is key.
  • The testing here isn’t about passing or failing a spiritual exam.
  • It’s about proving authenticity
  • Showing that your faith is real.
  • Just as a goldsmith
  • Applies heat to reveal purity,
  • God allows hardship
  • To reveal the strength and sincerity of our trust in Him.
  • God tests us
  • Not to learn about us,
  • But to teach us about ourselves.
  • God already knows what’s in your heart.
  • The testing isn’t for His information
  • It’s for your transformation.
  • The fire shows us what’s truly inside.
  • When pressure hits,
  • What comes out?
  • Fear or faith?
  • Complaints or confidence?
  • The fire exposes what’s genuine.
  • Testing is God’s tool for maturity.

Romans 5:3–4 says, “We also boast in our afflictions, because we know that affliction produces endurance, endurance produces proven character, and proven character produces hope.”

  • That’s the progression:
  • affliction → endurance → character → hope.
  • No fire, no maturity.
  • God is not interested in comfort without character.
  • The fire separates the genuine from the fake.
  • When you heat metal,
  • Impurities rise to the surface.
  • That’s what God’s doing in us
  • Bringing to light what doesn’t belong.
  • Jesus told a parable about this:

“When distress or persecution comes because of the word, they immediately fall away.” (Matthew 13:21).

  • Trials reveal
  • Who’s following Jesus for real
  • And who’s just along for the ride.
  • The testing isn’t just individual—it’s communal.
  • Peter says
  • The ordeal comes among you—plural.
  • The church suffers together.
  • In the early church,
  • Persecution didn’t hit one person at a time
  • It hit the whole body.
  • And that shared suffering created deep unity.
  • When one member hurt, all hurt.
  • When one endured,
  • All were strengthened.
  • The same is true today:
  • Your endurance in the fire
  • Encourages someone else in theirs.
  • God’s testing
  • Is not meant to destroy but to display.
  • Think back to Daniel 3—
  • Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego thrown into the furnace.
  • Nebuchadnezzar expected ashes.
  • Instead, he saw four men walking unharmed,
  • And one looked like “a son of the gods.” (Daniel 3:25).
  • That’s the gospel picture:
  • The fire didn’t destroy them;
  • It displayed the glory of God’s presence.
  • Your trial might just be the stage
  • Where others finally see Christ in you.
  • When God tests you,
  • He’s actually trusting you.
  • Job didn’t volunteer for suffering;
  • He was chosen for it.
  • God said to Satan,
  • “Have you considered my servant Job?” (Job 1:8).
  • That’s staggering.
  • God was proud of Job’s faith.
  • Some of you need to hear that
  • Your trial doesn’t mean you’ve failed God;
  • It might mean God is showing the enemy,
  • “Look at my servant.
  • Their faith is real.”
  • Testing brings intimacy with Christ.
  • Paul said in

Philippians 3:10, “My goal is to know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings.”

  • You cannot truly know Jesus deeply
  • Without walking with Him through the valley of pain.
  • Suffering introduces you to sides of His love
  • You never could’ve seen otherwise.
  • So Peter says
  • This fiery ordeal has purpose
  • To test you,
  • To refine you,
  • To prove the authenticity of your faith.
  • God’s not out to break you;
  • He’s out to build you.
  • He’s not trying to punish you;
  • He’s trying to purify you.
  • When you understand
  • The purpose behind the pain,
  • You can begin to walk through it differently.
  • But Peter adds one more thing
  • Don’t think of this as rare or strange.
  • This is normal for followers of Jesus.

Point 3: See the Fire as Normal, Not Strange

Peter finishes the verse:

“…as if something unusual were happening to you.”

  • Now that word “unusual”
  • Could be translated “foreign” or “strange.”
  • He’s saying,
  • “Stop treating trials like they don’t belong in the Christian life.”
  • The fire isn’t foreign—it’s familiar.
  • It’s part of the journey.
  • Suffering for Christ is not rare—it’s regular.
  • From the apostles in Acts
  • To believers around the world today,
  • Suffering has always been part of the story.
  • When we face hostility for our faith,
  • We are joining a long line of saints
  • Who carried their cross before us.
  • You are not the exception;
  • You are the continuation.
  • Jesus told us to expect this.

John 15:18—“If the world hates you, understand that it hated me before it hated you.”

  • Peter was in the room when Jesus said that.
  • He heard those words firsthand.
  • So when he writes to the church,
  • He’s just reminding them:
  • “Don’t forget what Jesus already told us.
  • This is part of the deal.”
  • Seeing suffering as normal shifts our focus.
  • When we think trials are strange,
  • We focus on our grievance—“Why me?”
  • But when we know they’re normal,
  • We focus on God’s grace—“Lord, use me.”
  • It’s not, “Why is this happening?”
  • It’s, “How can I glorify You in it?”
  • Trials are temporary;
  • Glory is eternal.

1 Peter 5:10 promises, “The God of all grace… will Himself restore, establish, strengthen, and support you after you have suffered a little while.”

  • Did you catch that? “
  • A little while.”
  • The fire feels endless when you’re in it,
  • But in light of eternity,
  • It’s a moment compared to forever.
  • Suffering unites the church.

1 Peter 5:9 says, “Resist him, firm in the faith, knowing that the same kind of sufferings are being experienced by your fellow believers throughout the world.”

  • You’re not alone.
  • When one Christian suffers,
  • The global church stands with them.
  • And when you endure faithfully,
  • You encourage countless others to do the same.
  • Seeing the fire as normal allows us to rejoice.
  • Verse 13 picks this up:
  • “Instead, rejoice as you share in the sufferings of Christ.”
  • Rejoice? Yes
  • Because you’re being conformed to His image.
  • The world might see your suffering as a loss,
  • But heaven sees it as evidence of life.
  • So Peter’s final thought is this:
  • Stop being shocked by the fire
  • And start seeing it as sacred.
  • This is not strange;
  • This is sanctifying.
  • This is not the end;
  • It’s evidence that God is at work.
  • And all of this
  • Our endurance,
  • Our testing,
  • Our perspective
  • Only makes sense
  • When we look at the One
  • Who went through the ultimate fire for us.

Point 4: Jesus Endured the Fire We Couldn’t

  • Peter’s words
  • About testing and fire
  • Point us back to the cross.
  • Jesus went through a fire
  • Far greater than anything we will ever face
  • The fire of God’s wrath against sin.
  • He was not tested for His sin but for ours.
  • Jesus took the fire of judgment in our place.

Isaiah 53:5 says, “He was pierced because of our rebellion, crushed because of our iniquities.”

  • The full blaze of God’s justice fell on Him.
  • The furnace that should have consumed us
  • Consumed Christ instead.
  • That’s why our trials now purify instead of punish.
  • Jesus didn’t avoid suffering
  • He embraced it.
  • From the very beginning,
  • He told His disciples,

“The Son of Man must suffer many things… be killed, and rise after three days.” (Mark 8:31).

  • He didn’t hide from the cross;
  • He walked straight toward it.
  • When Peter tells us
  • Not to be surprised by suffering,
  • He’s echoing his Master.
  • He was tested and found faithful.

Hebrews 4:15 reminds us, “We do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way as we are, yet without sin.”

  • Jesus passed through every test perfectly
  • So that when we fail, His righteousness covers us.
  • Because Jesus faced the fire,
  • Our fires now refine—not condemn.

Romans 8:1 declares, “There is now no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus.”

  • The judgment is over.
  • The fire left marks on Him,
  • Not on us.
  • Now every hardship we face
  • Becomes part of our sanctification,
  • Not our sentencing.
  • In our fire,
  • Jesus is not distant
  • He’s present.
  • Like the fourth man in the furnace of Daniel 3,
  • Christ walks with His people in every flame.
  • You may not see Him at first,
  • But He’s there
  • Upholding you,
  • Strengthening you,
  • Whispering, “I will never leave you or forsake you.”
  • The gospel guarantees the fire will end in glory.
  • The cross gave way to resurrection.
  • Death gave way to life.
  • The same will be true for us.

2 Corinthians 4:17 says, “For our momentary light affliction is producing for us an absolutely incomparable eternal weight of glory.”

  • The fire might last a season,
  • But glory lasts forever.
  • Church,
  • That’s the hope
  • Peter is pointing us toward.
  • You can face the fire
  • Because Jesus faced it first—and He won.

Conclusion: Refined for His Glory

  • So what do we take from all this?
  • Peter doesn’t promise the fire will go away.
  • He promises it will not be wasted.
  • He’s teaching us that the same God
  • Who allows the flame controls the temperature.
  • Maybe your fiery ordeal today isn’t persecution—it’s pressure.
  • Maybe it’s not public opposition—it’s private pain.
  • Maybe it’s something in your marriage,
  • Your health,
  • Your finances, or
  • Your faith that feels like it’s burning you alive.
  • Peter would say: “Don’t be surprised.”
  • Don’t see it as strange.
  • God is refining you.
  • He’s purifying your motives.
  • He’s strengthening your character.
  • He’s shaping your heart to look more like Jesus.
  • And when you come through the fire,
  • You’ll shine brighter for His glory.
  • So what should we do?
  • Rest in His love.
  • Peter started with “Dear friends.”
  • You are beloved,
  • Even in the fire.
  • Remember His purpose.
  • The testing isn’t punishment—it’s preparation.
  • Rely on His presence.
  • The Son of Man stands beside you in the furnace.
  • Rejoice in His promise.
  • The fire won’t last forever—but the faith it produces will.

A Call to Response

  • Maybe today,
  • You’re standing in the middle of that heat,
  • Wondering where God is.
  • You feel pressure,
  • Pain, or confusion.
  • You’ve asked Him,
  • “Lord, what did I do wrong?”
  • And His answer through Peter is:
  • “Nothing. I’m refining you.
  • I’m still here.”
  • Or maybe you’ve been running from the fire,
  • Avoiding the refining work of God in your life.
  • Today, it’s time to surrender.
  • To stop fighting and start trusting.
  • Say, “God, I don’t understand this season,
  • But I trust Your hand.”
  • And maybe for someone,
  • You’ve never placed your faith in Christ at all.
  • Hear this:
  • Without Jesus,
  • The ultimate fire of judgment still stands ahead.
  • But in Him,
  • That fire has already been faced and finished.
  • The cross was the furnace where sin met grace, and grace won.
  • Come to Him today.
  • The heat that would have destroyed you
  • Has already been poured out on Him.
  • Now all that remains is mercy.
  • Church, when the fire comes
  • And it will
  • It’s not the end of your story.
  • It’s the proof that your story belongs to God.
  • The same fire that frightens the world
  • Refines the believer.
  • It turns confession into conviction.
  • It burns away the temporary
  • So only the eternal remains.
  • So don’t be surprised.
  • Don’t lose heart.
  • The fire that once looked like your undoing
  • Is actually your unveiling.
  • And one day,
  • When you stand before your King,
  • Purified and proven, ‘
  • You’ll say,
  • “It was worth it.
  • Every flame,
  • Every test
  • Every tear
  • It was all worth it,
  • Because it made me more like Him.

 

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