Exiles – 1 Peter 4:12
October 12, 2025 / New City Church OlatheWhen the Fire Comes: Faith That Endures the Test
1 Peter 4:12 (CSB)
“Dear friends, don’t be surprised when the fiery ordeal comes among you to test you as if something unusual were happening to you.”
Introduction – The Fire That Tests the Faithful
- Church,
- When Peter wrote these words,
- He wasn’t speaking to people
- Who were comfortable or secure.
- He was writing to a scattered,
- Suffering church
- Men and women
- Living under Roman rule,
- Trying to follow Jesus
- In a world that did not understand their faith.
- They were strangers and exiles.
- Their faith made them stand out,
- And because of that,
- They were starting to pay the price.
- They were losing relationships,
- Losing respect,
- Losing opportunities.
- Some even faced imprisonment and death.
- And Peter,
- The same Peter
- Who once denied Jesus out of fear,
- Is now shepherding these believers
- By reminding them
- That suffering is not strange—it’s sacred.
- The fire that feels like it’s burning you is actually refining you.
- In this verse,
- Peter calls their hardship a “fiery ordeal.”
- That’s not just poetic language.
- It’s meant to grab attention.
- It echoes the words of the prophet Malachi,
- Who described God as a refiner and purifier of silver.
Malachi 3:2 says,
“For he will be like a refiner’s fire and like launderer’s bleach.”
- That image would have been familiar to Peter’s readers:
- A refiner’s fire removes impurities until only pure gold remains.
- So, Peter is saying something powerful here
- God hasn’t abandoned you in the fire.
- He’s working through it.
- Notice also how he begins: “Dear friends…” or “Beloved.”
- Before he ever talks about pain,
- He reminds them of love.
- Before he addresses the furnace,
- He points them to the Father.
- You are loved by God,
- Even in the flames.
- The fire doesn’t mean you’ve been forgotten;
- It means you are being formed.
- And church,
- We need to hear that today.
- Because every one of us
- Either has been,
- Currently is,
- Or will soon
- Be walking through a fire of some kind.
- It might be persecution for your faith,
- Or pressure in your family,
- Or pain that you never saw coming.
- But Peter says, “Don’t be surprised.”
- That’s the heartbeat of this verse.
- When the fire comes
- And it will
- Don’t let it shake you.
- God is doing something in it.
- So let’s look together at three truths
- Peter gives us about enduring the fire.
Point 1: Don’t Be Surprised by the Fire
- Peter begins with these words:
“Dear friends, don’t be surprised when the fiery ordeal comes among you…”
- He doesn’t say if it comes;
- He says when.
- The fire is inevitable
- For anyone who belongs to Jesus.
- It’s not punishment;
- It’s proof that you belong to Him.
- Now, let’s be honest:
- Our natural reaction to pain or pressure is often surprise.
- We think,
- “Why is this happening to me?
- I’m trying to do the right thing!
- Shouldn’t following Jesus make life easier?”
- Peter says, “No, don’t be shocked. This is part of it.”
- Faith in Christ doesn’t remove suffering—it redefines it.
- Jesus told His disciples plainly,
“In this world you will have suffering. Be courageous! I have conquered the world.” (John 16:33 CSB).
- Peter’s echoing those very words.
- He’s reminding us
- That Jesus didn’t come to keep us out of the fire
- But to walk with us through it.
- The victory isn’t found in avoiding hardship
- It’s found in enduring it with Him.
- Surprise often reveals misplaced expectations.
- Sometimes our surprise
- Shows that we’ve built our theology around comfort
- Instead of the cross.
- When things get hard,
- We think something’s gone wrong.
- But Peter’s saying,
- “No, this is exactly how it’s supposed to go.”
- The presence of pain
- Doesn’t mean the absence of God.
- It might mean His plan is working perfectly.
- The phrase “fiery ordeal”
- Suggests both intensity and purpose.
- The Greek word Peter uses—pyrosis—
- Literally means “burning” or “smelting.”
- It’s what you do to metal to make it pure.
- The fire’s heat isn’t random;
- It’s refining.
James 1:2–3 says, “Consider it a great joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you experience various trials, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance.”
- In other words,
- The fire isn’t meant to consume you
- It’s meant to complete you.
- Peter knew this personally
- He wasn’t writing about theory.
- Remember,
- This is the man who once said to Jesus,
- “Even if I have to die with You,
- I will never deny You.”
- But when the pressure came,
- He folded.
- The rooster crowed,
- And Peter wept bitterly.
- Yet Jesus restored him.
- So when Peter says,
- “Don’t be surprised,”
- he’s talking as someone
- who’s felt the sting of failure
- And the sweetness of forgiveness.
- Suffering connects us to the story of Christ.
- Verse 13 continues the thought:
- “Instead, rejoice as you share in the sufferings of Christ.”
- That word “share”
- Means to have fellowship with.
- When you suffer for Christ,
- You’re not alone;
- You’re participating in His story.
- The world that crucified your Savior
- Will never fully celebrate your faith—but heaven does.
- God is never surprised,
- Even when we are.
Romans 8:28 says, “We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God.”
- You may be shocked by the heat,
- But God planned the temperature.
- Nothing passes through your life
- Without first passing through His hands.
- So Peter’s first command is simple:
- Don’t be surprised.
- The Christian life
- Isn’t a detour around suffering
- It’s the pathway through it.
- When the fire comes,
- Don’t panic;
- Prepare.
- Don’t question God’s goodness;
- Trust His purpose.
- Now once we stop being surprised by the fire,
- We can begin to see what God is doing through it.
- That leads to Peter’s second reminder.
Point 2: Recognize the Purpose of the Fire
Peter continues,
“…the fiery ordeal comes among you to test you…”
- Now that word test is key.
- The testing here isn’t about passing or failing a spiritual exam.
- It’s about proving authenticity
- Showing that your faith is real.
- Just as a goldsmith
- Applies heat to reveal purity,
- God allows hardship
- To reveal the strength and sincerity of our trust in Him.
- God tests us
- Not to learn about us,
- But to teach us about ourselves.
- God already knows what’s in your heart.
- The testing isn’t for His information
- It’s for your transformation.
- The fire shows us what’s truly inside.
- When pressure hits,
- What comes out?
- Fear or faith?
- Complaints or confidence?
- The fire exposes what’s genuine.
- Testing is God’s tool for maturity.
Romans 5:3–4 says, “We also boast in our afflictions, because we know that affliction produces endurance, endurance produces proven character, and proven character produces hope.”
- That’s the progression:
- affliction → endurance → character → hope.
- No fire, no maturity.
- God is not interested in comfort without character.
- The fire separates the genuine from the fake.
- When you heat metal,
- Impurities rise to the surface.
- That’s what God’s doing in us
- Bringing to light what doesn’t belong.
- Jesus told a parable about this:
“When distress or persecution comes because of the word, they immediately fall away.” (Matthew 13:21).
- Trials reveal
- Who’s following Jesus for real
- And who’s just along for the ride.
- The testing isn’t just individual—it’s communal.
- Peter says
- The ordeal comes among you—plural.
- The church suffers together.
- In the early church,
- Persecution didn’t hit one person at a time
- It hit the whole body.
- And that shared suffering created deep unity.
- When one member hurt, all hurt.
- When one endured,
- All were strengthened.
- The same is true today:
- Your endurance in the fire
- Encourages someone else in theirs.
- God’s testing
- Is not meant to destroy but to display.
- Think back to Daniel 3—
- Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego thrown into the furnace.
- Nebuchadnezzar expected ashes.
- Instead, he saw four men walking unharmed,
- And one looked like “a son of the gods.” (Daniel 3:25).
- That’s the gospel picture:
- The fire didn’t destroy them;
- It displayed the glory of God’s presence.
- Your trial might just be the stage
- Where others finally see Christ in you.
- When God tests you,
- He’s actually trusting you.
- Job didn’t volunteer for suffering;
- He was chosen for it.
- God said to Satan,
- “Have you considered my servant Job?” (Job 1:8).
- That’s staggering.
- God was proud of Job’s faith.
- Some of you need to hear that
- Your trial doesn’t mean you’ve failed God;
- It might mean God is showing the enemy,
- “Look at my servant.
- Their faith is real.”
- Testing brings intimacy with Christ.
- Paul said in
Philippians 3:10, “My goal is to know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings.”
- You cannot truly know Jesus deeply
- Without walking with Him through the valley of pain.
- Suffering introduces you to sides of His love
- You never could’ve seen otherwise.
- So Peter says
- This fiery ordeal has purpose
- To test you,
- To refine you,
- To prove the authenticity of your faith.
- God’s not out to break you;
- He’s out to build you.
- He’s not trying to punish you;
- He’s trying to purify you.
- When you understand
- The purpose behind the pain,
- You can begin to walk through it differently.
- But Peter adds one more thing
- Don’t think of this as rare or strange.
- This is normal for followers of Jesus.
Point 3: See the Fire as Normal, Not Strange
Peter finishes the verse:
“…as if something unusual were happening to you.”
- Now that word “unusual”
- Could be translated “foreign” or “strange.”
- He’s saying,
- “Stop treating trials like they don’t belong in the Christian life.”
- The fire isn’t foreign—it’s familiar.
- It’s part of the journey.
- Suffering for Christ is not rare—it’s regular.
- From the apostles in Acts
- To believers around the world today,
- Suffering has always been part of the story.
- When we face hostility for our faith,
- We are joining a long line of saints
- Who carried their cross before us.
- You are not the exception;
- You are the continuation.
- Jesus told us to expect this.
John 15:18—“If the world hates you, understand that it hated me before it hated you.”
- Peter was in the room when Jesus said that.
- He heard those words firsthand.
- So when he writes to the church,
- He’s just reminding them:
- “Don’t forget what Jesus already told us.
- This is part of the deal.”
- Seeing suffering as normal shifts our focus.
- When we think trials are strange,
- We focus on our grievance—“Why me?”
- But when we know they’re normal,
- We focus on God’s grace—“Lord, use me.”
- It’s not, “Why is this happening?”
- It’s, “How can I glorify You in it?”
- Trials are temporary;
- Glory is eternal.
1 Peter 5:10 promises, “The God of all grace… will Himself restore, establish, strengthen, and support you after you have suffered a little while.”
- Did you catch that? “
- A little while.”
- The fire feels endless when you’re in it,
- But in light of eternity,
- It’s a moment compared to forever.
- Suffering unites the church.
1 Peter 5:9 says, “Resist him, firm in the faith, knowing that the same kind of sufferings are being experienced by your fellow believers throughout the world.”
- You’re not alone.
- When one Christian suffers,
- The global church stands with them.
- And when you endure faithfully,
- You encourage countless others to do the same.
- Seeing the fire as normal allows us to rejoice.
- Verse 13 picks this up:
- “Instead, rejoice as you share in the sufferings of Christ.”
- Rejoice? Yes
- Because you’re being conformed to His image.
- The world might see your suffering as a loss,
- But heaven sees it as evidence of life.
- So Peter’s final thought is this:
- Stop being shocked by the fire
- And start seeing it as sacred.
- This is not strange;
- This is sanctifying.
- This is not the end;
- It’s evidence that God is at work.
- And all of this
- Our endurance,
- Our testing,
- Our perspective
- Only makes sense
- When we look at the One
- Who went through the ultimate fire for us.
Point 4: Jesus Endured the Fire We Couldn’t
- Peter’s words
- About testing and fire
- Point us back to the cross.
- Jesus went through a fire
- Far greater than anything we will ever face
- The fire of God’s wrath against sin.
- He was not tested for His sin but for ours.
- Jesus took the fire of judgment in our place.
Isaiah 53:5 says, “He was pierced because of our rebellion, crushed because of our iniquities.”
- The full blaze of God’s justice fell on Him.
- The furnace that should have consumed us
- Consumed Christ instead.
- That’s why our trials now purify instead of punish.
- Jesus didn’t avoid suffering
- He embraced it.
- From the very beginning,
- He told His disciples,
“The Son of Man must suffer many things… be killed, and rise after three days.” (Mark 8:31).
- He didn’t hide from the cross;
- He walked straight toward it.
- When Peter tells us
- Not to be surprised by suffering,
- He’s echoing his Master.
- He was tested and found faithful.
Hebrews 4:15 reminds us, “We do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way as we are, yet without sin.”
- Jesus passed through every test perfectly
- So that when we fail, His righteousness covers us.
- Because Jesus faced the fire,
- Our fires now refine—not condemn.
Romans 8:1 declares, “There is now no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus.”
- The judgment is over.
- The fire left marks on Him,
- Not on us.
- Now every hardship we face
- Becomes part of our sanctification,
- Not our sentencing.
- In our fire,
- Jesus is not distant
- He’s present.
- Like the fourth man in the furnace of Daniel 3,
- Christ walks with His people in every flame.
- You may not see Him at first,
- But He’s there
- Upholding you,
- Strengthening you,
- Whispering, “I will never leave you or forsake you.”
- The gospel guarantees the fire will end in glory.
- The cross gave way to resurrection.
- Death gave way to life.
- The same will be true for us.
2 Corinthians 4:17 says, “For our momentary light affliction is producing for us an absolutely incomparable eternal weight of glory.”
- The fire might last a season,
- But glory lasts forever.
- Church,
- That’s the hope
- Peter is pointing us toward.
- You can face the fire
- Because Jesus faced it first—and He won.
Conclusion: Refined for His Glory
- So what do we take from all this?
- Peter doesn’t promise the fire will go away.
- He promises it will not be wasted.
- He’s teaching us that the same God
- Who allows the flame controls the temperature.
- Maybe your fiery ordeal today isn’t persecution—it’s pressure.
- Maybe it’s not public opposition—it’s private pain.
- Maybe it’s something in your marriage,
- Your health,
- Your finances, or
- Your faith that feels like it’s burning you alive.
- Peter would say: “Don’t be surprised.”
- Don’t see it as strange.
- God is refining you.
- He’s purifying your motives.
- He’s strengthening your character.
- He’s shaping your heart to look more like Jesus.
- And when you come through the fire,
- You’ll shine brighter for His glory.
- So what should we do?
- Rest in His love.
- Peter started with “Dear friends.”
- You are beloved,
- Even in the fire.
- Remember His purpose.
- The testing isn’t punishment—it’s preparation.
- Rely on His presence.
- The Son of Man stands beside you in the furnace.
- Rejoice in His promise.
- The fire won’t last forever—but the faith it produces will.
A Call to Response
- Maybe today,
- You’re standing in the middle of that heat,
- Wondering where God is.
- You feel pressure,
- Pain, or confusion.
- You’ve asked Him,
- “Lord, what did I do wrong?”
- And His answer through Peter is:
- “Nothing. I’m refining you.
- I’m still here.”
- Or maybe you’ve been running from the fire,
- Avoiding the refining work of God in your life.
- Today, it’s time to surrender.
- To stop fighting and start trusting.
- Say, “God, I don’t understand this season,
- But I trust Your hand.”
- And maybe for someone,
- You’ve never placed your faith in Christ at all.
- Hear this:
- Without Jesus,
- The ultimate fire of judgment still stands ahead.
- But in Him,
- That fire has already been faced and finished.
- The cross was the furnace where sin met grace, and grace won.
- Come to Him today.
- The heat that would have destroyed you
- Has already been poured out on Him.
- Now all that remains is mercy.
- Church, when the fire comes
- And it will
- It’s not the end of your story.
- It’s the proof that your story belongs to God.
- The same fire that frightens the world
- Refines the believer.
- It turns confession into conviction.
- It burns away the temporary
- So only the eternal remains.
- So don’t be surprised.
- Don’t lose heart.
- The fire that once looked like your undoing
- Is actually your unveiling.
- And one day,
- When you stand before your King,
- Purified and proven, ‘
- You’ll say,
- “It was worth it.
- Every flame,
- Every test
- Every tear
- It was all worth it,
- Because it made me more like Him.